The
goal of nearly every religion has been to figure out how we can get our wishes and needs granted. If
only we pray the right way, bow the right way, dress the right way, eat the
right way, behave the right way…only then will God listen to us and give us
what we want.
Throughout
time and numberless civilizations, people have burned incense, chanted, danced, sacrificed
animals (or even other human beings), and have suffered through countless other ritual acts, from the horrific to the silly, in this
attempt to get God to grant to us what we want. There is even today a primitive
tribe where the culture centers around this act: boys and men make a rope from
jungle vines, tie one end around their ankle and the other end high up in a
tree which they have climbed, and then jump out of the tree headfirst. With luck, they only just graze
the earth with their head and the vine prevents them from crashing into the
ground. Deaths and injuries, however, are not unknown. Why do they do this? So
that God will grant them a good harvest.
The ideas of getting what we want (e.g., manifestation)
that are currently popular in Western society are often simply continuances of the same principles behind
lighting a candle, praying to the four directions, rubbing a magic lamp to get
the genii to appear, or saying “Hail, Mary.” We are absolutely fascinated by anything that
may help us to get our way.
The
laws governing manifestation that are popular with the New Age community today may well be correct–our thoughts and emotions have an effect on our circumstances, and we are told that we must think, feel,
and believe in certain ways if we are going to be able to get what we
want–but these laws are far more complex than
most people realize. Sadly, for many people the idea of manifestation has turned into something superstitious
and magical, not unlike jumping out of a tree headfirst to permit a good harvest, or
sacrificing an ox to assure victory in battle.
To understand these complexities, it
is important to recognize that our souls are infinite. Many people now accept the idea that we come into human form
many times rather than just once. If this is true, while every sincere thought we have and
every action we take may indeed come back to us in exact measure, it can take
centuries before we reap the results, positive or negative, of these thoughts and
actions. Even more, we live in a fractal universe that is constantly
rearranging and shifting in response not just to our individual thoughts, but
to our mass consciousness as well.
Moreover, our souls have chosen to have a human
experience, and that experience is full of polarities: both good and bad things
happen to all of us. Nobody is immune to this.
Not
long ago a man criticized a dear friend of mine who had a chronic, debilitating illness, saying
to her, “If you didn’t believe in
that illness, you would be okay.” A short time later, after suffering loss after
loss, he was in a terrible car accident. His beloved dog
was killed, and the man had to be airlifted to a hospital because of the
seriousness of his injuries. Did this happen because he, as he had accused my friend, held incorrect beliefs?
There
are actually many reasons why things like sickness occur. Even the great intuitives like
Edgar Cayce have said that while physical debilitation may indeed be the result
of assorted thoughts and emotions, sometimes sickness just happens. When a colony
of honeybees collapses and dies, is it because the honeybees had the
wrong attitude? If a tree gets a disease, does that mean the tree hosted
negative thoughts? When a dog is hit by a car, is it because the dog believed
incorrectly? Nonsense. Similarly, when our souls come into human form,
part of the deal is that we participate in the laws that govern human form, and
those laws include the possibility of disease, accidents, and other common earthly occurrences.
The events and circumstances that occur to us are influenced by far more than our beliefs, emotions, and thinking. Among other things, our souls have come
into human form to learn valuable lessons. Someone with a chronic illness may have signed up
for that illness as a way of learning patience. Someone who is always broke may
have signed up for that lesson to learn the lessons of loss and surrender. Someone who is
addicted to alcohol or drugs may have chosen that problem on a soul level so
that they could learn humility. We are not consciously privy to the lessons for
which we have enrolled, and we are even less privy to someone else’s lessons. It is
cause for tolerance both for others and for ourselves.
Despite this, trying
to get the Universe to work so that we can have our wishes granted is not only
ancient; it seems to be part of the human condition. While there are certainly successes, putting out enormous effort in an attempt to control our circumstances so that we can get things to work out in precisely the way we want can
also lead to massive frustration and self-blame. It largely does not work any
more than jumping headfirst from tall trees or sacrificing virgins works, even though
the cultures that engage in those acts are adamant that their method is the
best, and is necessary to make their lives better.
This does not mean that we should completely avoid the idea of manifestation. Discretion and awareness are necessary. Asking for and inviting things like daily needs, repair of relationships, healing of the body, or safe travels either for ourself or for others are naturally acceptable. There is a thin line, however, between this and the superstitious, compulsive behavior that blames all unfortunate events on people not having the "correct" mindset or attitude, or the self-doubt that may come when things do not go our way.
Rather
than attempting to program every detail of lives for our own personal benefit,
an easier, more peaceful, and higher-level way of facing life is simply to surrender to
whatever larger force one believes in, whether that be God, the Universe, or
simply the tides and currents of ever-changing events. This assures that we
will fit in the flow or, if you will, the soup of life, free to contribute and to experience in the best way for all concerned without the interference of
trying so hard to achieve our greedy ends.
I
once asked a wise old man what the secret of life was. He replied, “Life is
like floating down a river. If you try to direct the course of the current, or
struggle to stay in the same place, you’re going to be in trouble. The secret
is just to drift and enjoy and allow.”
by Mary Elizabeth (Leach) Raines
(c) 2022
All rights reserved
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